Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hey goerge ... thanks in advance for the advice ... ummmm so as soon as i recieved ur last advice saying you still are not getting the attention you need and deserve from him ..straight away i sent him an email saying i dont no what i have been thinking latley but this isnt what i want i care about you alot but dont think it is meant to be so next time i talk to you dont say your lines because i dont wnat to hear it because if u did care you would be letting me no whats up and what ur doing but u dont so lets just leave it at that before someone really gets hurt not that u probably care but i do .. and i dont hate u but dont want to get deeper into something thats just gonna end up in broken promises why try so hard to get something u dont even want ? ..... that is what i sent to him and it is bugging me so much now because i feel like i just jumped to all these conclusions and sort of put things on him i dont no that were true ... please try to convince me otherwise so i dont feel bad for this ... do you think what i said was right ?... was that the thing i should have done in this case? ... and he never sent anything back and just came on msn and was liek hey and i said hey whats up then he said nothing what are u doing i answered then signed off ..i dont no wether i should be feeling bad because of this because he explained to me when he likes a girl he gives her everything he can and he always gets messed over by girls so its so hard to trust them ..and he really liked me then i dont talk to him for a couple days and said all that to him . i almost feel like i just bailed on him .. but i dont no if i should care or not .. if u do think i should have handled it differently can u tell me what to do to talk to him ?
You did everything just right.
Now you are having those guilty feelings that everyone has when they break up with someone when the other person isn't terrible but you just know it isn't going to work out. It is better for him to hear it from you directly like you did and you did it very nicely.
If he tries really hard and make you feel better about him then is the time to tell him exactly what you expect him to do if he wants to keep you. Like he should call you every day, hang out with you twice or more every week. And whatever else you want him to do. Maybe he is just clueless.
But, for the time being consider it a clean break and go your separate ways. Another, nicer boy will come your way soon.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com