arguments and fights
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I got another question.me and my fiance just got back together we have been off and on for nine months.we fight alot because i kissed another guy and i talked to a few guys.well i stopped all that.and he dont trust me.he blames me for everything.he calls my cell phone asking me where am i and who am i with.and another thing is he has a guy friend that he sees constantly that lives three hours away.and i cant stand him.when we first got together he wanted this guy gone.now he acts like he likes him.he always talked bad about him.this guy is bi.he has a thing for my guy.my man says hes not bi hes straight.so we fight about that.I dont want him seeing this guy anymore.this guy does everything for my man.he drives three hours and he buys my man stuff.my man just likes him because he buys him things.usely when im a round they fight because he gets jealous that my man pays attention to me.so i dont know what to do.I love my guy but now he acts like hes best friend is more important than me.he says hes not.and one time my guy ignored him for two weeks.hes friend would call and he would not answer and say bad stuff.so all of a sudden he likes him.im confused.this guy dont like me at all.because of the stuff ive done to my man.they have to see eachother for two months now because they are going hunting together and my man dont have a vehicle.so how do i handle him seeing this guy?this guy swears hes straight but i know hes bi.he even looked at gay porn online.is it possible my guy and him are dating?how do i find out if they are a together?and how do i handle hanging with him?
I have no good answers for you.
Most of what you said is guesswork--especially about who is bi or not.
My advice is to see a counselor who can get to the bottom of what is going on.
Your relationship, if it is going to last, needs someone one from the outside to take some time to talk with both of you and clear things up.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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