Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hey goerge so i took ur advice on you saying i shouldnt waste any more of my time on him and tried to not waste any more of my time on him by not talking to him but eventually i answered back and said it seems liek the same situation as b4 so i midaswell stop talking to you now i just dont think its what u want and he was like how would u no what i want ur everything i want in life and i was just liek ya well i gave u chances and u didnt take them so if i was u would have and hes just liek i no but things have been crazy latly and i just want the best for both of us and none of this is because of u . he started explaing to me stuff with his family that hes dealing with and i just said well hope everything gets better for u and hes liek hope we can be together to so i was liek ya well see and hes like taht doesnt sound to convincing so i said well its up to you to make it more and he replied with oh i will just got to give it some time ... then 2 days later the next time i talked to him he was liek guess u hate me now or somthing and i was just liek no and hes like well ur different towards me and i was like i just havent talked to u much latly what have u been doing and then the convo was really short and thats the last i talked to him..then went on msn and his name was watch out for them unfaithful women ..why was his name that ?. do you think i did the right thing ??? or do you think im just going to be wasting my time again ?... should i be all good with everything now or what do u think ?
He is still not giving you the attention you deserve and need.
My advice is to stop waiting on him.
However, it seems like you want to give him a chance. If that's what you want to do, then tell him what you want. Just as an example, you might tell him that you expect him to contact you every day even if it is just for a short amount of time. That you expect to go out or hang out once or twice a week.
When he knows exactly what you want then is the time for him to put up or shut up.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com