what to do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
from my last question she wasnt dating her ex buT A NEW guy and im thinkin he is like a rebone guy becuase she still miss's me and says she was happier with me and doesnt know her feeling just yet i guess.i want her back so bad.she see's that but she wants to give this a guy a chance and see were it goes but its so hard not to just grab her and kiss her intil she loves me agian.she still loves me but she also likes the guy.so what should i do?she knows i wont give up on her and ill always care for her but i want to know how to win her back and maybe stay with me.she also says i treated her better than any guy she dated before and she cared for me alot and im her only bets friend now.everyone left her becuase of her dating that guy.will that make her change her mind?well if you can help me with these questions ill thank you a million times.
Be her best friend.
Let her know that you care for her deeply (don't beg or whine) and that you are there for her if she needs you.
Listen neutrally if she describes problems with her new guy or with her friends. Support as she needs it.
It sounds like she will be back to you soon, so be as cheerful as you can be.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com