she won't decide
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i've been talking to the same girl for over a year now. it started as just a friendship but i've completely fallen for her and she says she feels the same way the only problem is she's had a boyfriend the whole time. i know its not a great idea to be interested in someone who will talk to other guys in a relationship but i really love her. i told her a week ago to make a decision between the two of us but she still hasn't and today i told her again but she just got mad. she tells me she's leaning towards me and she spends more time with me than her boyfriend but she won't pick. i don't know what to do, i've tried to give up on her and move on but that hurts to much and now she gets mad at me when i ask her to pick. i don't know what else there is to do but any suggestions would be great, thanks.
If you keep putting pressure on her to decide, you are going to be the loser.
Nobody likes to be forced to do something and she has made it clear to you that she is not ready to choose. Continue to be her best friend and always let her know you love her. This will draw her to you.
I will also repeat what you said: what you two are doing is wrong and don't be surprised if things don't turn out well. But, you know that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com