how to get her back

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and this girl have dated for 3 years and after awhile i thought we needed a break so we took a break for a bout 3 weeks. She wanted to talk everyday and cried to me alot about how bad she wanted me. But I kept the break going. When I finally realized I for sure wanted to be with her she said thats not what she wanted. Some guy was there for her during the 3 weeks that I wasnt. Now she is seeing him and not me. I need help. She doesnt really wanna talk anymore. She seems to only be mad at me. But when shes not mad she really acts like she cares.... I really dont know what to or not to do please help. Advice
Remain as her close friend.

She is probably just getting over the shock of separation and talking about it with the other guy. Once she gets that out of her system, she may be willing to come back.

Make sure she knows that you still love her (without begging) and that you are there if she needs you.

Good luck! George

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