I want him back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I need help bad.I want my ex back but the thing is he dont trust me at all.thats why we broke up.because i did some things while we were together.that i regret.we fight constantly and he calls my house even when he knows im gone.just to see and to ask my parents where im at.and then last night i did something i regret.we are broken up.but we talk still.but its been over a week on phone since i talked to him.and he wants me back but i dont know how to get him to trust me.and last night i went to my cousins house and i was hurt so i got drunk and had sex with another guy.and now i realize that i want my ex back.but i dont know what to do.should i tell him that i had sex with another guy or should i not tell him?I feel guilty and i know its not cheating since we broke up but i just feel so bad.so now i dont know if i should tell him or not.when we were together i kissed another guy and he forgave me but does not forget.and i was drunk then.but i didnt have sex with that guy.so what do i do keep my mouth shut or tell even though theres a chance he will never talk to me again?please help me
Don't tell your ex what you did.
After all, you were not a couple when it happened. And, you can be sure he would not be happy and not forget it anyhow.
Let sleeping dogs lie.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com