LOVE BASED ON LIES
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been with my partner for a couple of years and recently we broke up because she realized that our entire relationship was based on lies. Now we are split up and its killing me that she wont let me fix it. We have been through this again and again but each time i am getting better at all my flaws i just wish she could see that. On top of that she is bisexual and her new lesbian friend is influencing her to do things she doesnt normally do. I feel that our relationship was brought down by my jealous feelings about how close my partner is getting with this lesbian and that i didnt seem to have a problem with it before but all of a sudden it is a problem and i dont know why. How should i go about fixing a relationship that i some how caused to break?
Her new found Lesbian friend is probably altering her feelings toward you. Life changes and you are caught in that change.
Since the break up was recent, you should try to remain friends with your ex and let her know you still care for her. Don't put down her new friend as that will simply push her away.
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Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com