umm very confused and really need help

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
okay heres then thing again i have dated this girl for 1year and for months we broke up last monday.. but while we were going out she cheated on me 4 times and once with a 27 year old guy and shes only 15 and cheated on me with a 27 year old guy?? well she cheated on me 4 times then calls me crying. and now shes changing shes starting to ask for weed from her old friends that she lost cuz of hows shes changing and shes getting really snappy with me and her old friends. shes lieing to her old friends and me i really love her even thoe she cheated on me 4 times and i still love her the same dont ask why i just really love her and now she left me for her ex boy friend and hes the one that is getting her to smoke weed she wont lesen to me or her old friends about her not doing it or what ever. and im just getting really worried and i want her back so i can love her and hold her in my arms again and get her back to the way she was b4 she starting dating her 17year old ex again... i just dont know how to go about getting her back or getting her to lesten to me or her old friends to get her to stop with the weed. but every time we do talk to her she gets mad at us... errrrrr i just dont know what to do to help her and get her back PLEASE HELP ME i really need it........... :(( Advice
She will come back when she is ready. And that will probably be soon since she is hanging out with some bad characters and not listening to you or her other friends.

Be available, don't be judgemental. She's not stupid and she knows what she is doing. She just doesn't care right now. So tell her you love her and are there to help her if she needs it.

Don't give her money that she needs for drugs. That would probably be illegal.

Good luck! George

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