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hey goerge thanks in advance for the help .. i am in a situation i am confused with and really need your help .. so there is this guy i had a thing with before ...i started talking to him agin and he seems to like me alot because the things he says like i love talking to you and id love to see you and hope we can work things out and just things liek that i have been talking to him alot latly on the computor and phone but he lives liek 2 hours away and he came down to where i live and said we were gonna see eachother but was helping his dad do work so just called me alot and then one of the nights he made plans with me and told me hed b done helping his dad at 3 or 4 but didnt call till really late and called alot of times then i was just liek is this even gonna happen or am i just wasting my time (because b4 when we made plans he never followed throughand just left it at that .. but then when i started talking to him again i was just liek well i dont want u to think thats oka to just leave things so unsaid and he said it was because he was lost and confused and stuff before because he just got out o a 2 year relationship he was hurt by ) .. but he replied with dont say stuff liek that its up to you whether ur wastin ur time but i can tell u ur not so think about that and hes just liek im down here til tuesday soo ... i talked to him on the phoe after that everything good ... then on the tuesday came around the last day he was here and the one day he didnt call or anything and i havent talked to him since then ... im confused why he is saying he wants to see me and all this stuff but then when it comes down to it it doesnt seem that he does .. what do you think should i tell him that im not gonna waste my time again because it seems the same as last time and i just ended up dissapointedt .. or should i just wait and see ... why do you think he is making plans but not following through he seems to be all talk no action .. what do u think i should do and say ?
He may be confused, but he is also rude and inconsiderate.
He must know he is hurting your feelings but doesn't do anything about it.
You shouldn't waste any more of your time on him.
Good luck! George
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