I know this is wrong, but I can't help it
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I work in a tech company. Pretty smart guy when it comes to brains, but a dumb when it comes to heart. When I joined this job from another country, I found myself attracted to a lady in my office(same Dep). I was single at that time and I'm still single. Somehow I allowed that feeling to grow in me about my colleague, and did not tried to check it until I learned (after 6 months) that she is married and has 2 kids. Since, then I'm fighting a battle from with in. My heart loves her, but the culture side of my brain makes me feel guilty about this whole affair. I can't stop thinking about her and at the same time I can't stop feeling guilty. Now to make the matter worse, she became my boss. Every time I see her, my heart starts to beat rapidly and I loose the idea of time or sense of purpose. Please help me. It is tearing me apart.
Two solutions come to mind.
First one is to find another woman to take her off your mind. Surely you can get dates, right?
Second is to get a new job... either within your company or find another company to work for.
I wouild not recommend confessing to her as that would just make things more awkward.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com