Is he guilty?Visitor's Question from a 51-60 year old Female
MY FIANCE, DO TO PERSONAL REASONS HAD MOVED 500 MILES AWAY TO LIVE WITH HIS MALE COUSIN.
WE KEPT CONTACT THROUGH TELEPHONE CALLS, AND TEXTING. I HAD HEARD FROM HIS COUSIN THAT HE WAS HAVING AFFAIRS WITH OTHER WOMEN BUT I DID NOT WANT TO BELIEVE IT.
THEN HE HAD TOLD ME THAT HE WAS MOVING IN WITH A MALE FRIEND.
HIS FRIEND HAD A COMPUTER SO WE STARTED TALKING ON IT.
NEXT THING I KNEW I FOUND OUT THAT THE ONE HE WAS LIVING WITH WAS A FEMALE, HE CLAIMS HE HAS KNOWN HER FOR 20 YEARS.
HE HAS A PROFILE ON 2 DIFFERENT PERSONAL SITES LOOKING FOR FEMALES,HE CLAIMS HE DOESN'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THEM.
I CANNOT SAY ANYTHING TO HIM WITHOUT, HIM SAYING THAT I AM ACCUSING HIM OF SLEEPING WITH THE WOMAN HE IS LIVING WITH?
I HAVE NEVER SAID HE WAS SLEEPING OR MESSING AROUND WITH HER. I ASKED HIM WHEN I ACCUSED HIM AND HE IGNORES THE QUESTION. HE HAS A PICTURE OF HER ON ONE SITE AS HIS FRIEND AND SHE IS IN A NIGHTY, JUST LIKE I USED TO HAVE YEARS AGO BUT HE SAYS IT IS NOT A NIGHTY BUT HALF OF HER BREAST IS SHOWING.I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO TELL IF HE IS CHEATING ON ME.
Just because you don't want to believe his cousin doesn't mean that the cousin is wrong. The cousin says your fiance is having affairs with other women. That is pretty good evidence to me.
He is living with another woman, and that is strong evidence to me.
All you have to go on at this point is guessing from the best evidence. It seems the evidence is arguing against your fiance.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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