true friend

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i have a friend of the oppisite sex, we've become really close. we call each other on the phone we jike around and basically tell each other everything. he's always finding some excuse to help me even when i don't need help. he recently cocnfessed his love about a girl and i excepted that. i mean we're only freinds. another thing is he never wants be to leave even when i'm sick1 i hang out with his g roup of friends and sit by them at lunch. amazingly we always end up taalking ou t sex or something. we where filing a peice of a project for sceince class like always he stepped in to be alone with me in the ibary with a video camerea. we didn't do anything. we gooofed off. when he sat down he took the only chair when i aked where i was going to sit he motioned to his lap! i was guessing he was just kidding, but i wasn't sure. i was playing around because i had leringatious and he kept zooming in on me in i poked himand he started laughing! so we got intoa poking fight. but the funny thing was he was laughing and enjoying it the whole time. he was laughing so hard he bend over and instead of poking his stomachei touched his penis he didn't scream like any normal boy did he actually was still laughing even when i apologized. he said he was going to tell everyone,he never did. also he can't stand for me to be upset. he was feeling bad one day i asked hat was wrong and he said his tummy hurt his head hurt and his penis hurt. he tells me personal stuff like that. does thta mean he likes me? if so why does he always make fun of me and ow i look and stuff. he loves to pinch my arms and hands is he flirting? sometimees he pinchs near my butt. but he always says he doesn't like me even when not even talking about stuff like that. he ssays he would never try anything because he doesn't like me but i'm not sure because he use to resist to being realy close and now he loves being extra close nd likes to tell me dirty jokes and about other girls. does he like me or is just a really good friend? sorry it tooook some many words! :) Advice
This is a tough question to answer.

He is giving you all kinds of signals which say that he likes you. But then he says he doesn't like you that way.

You didn't say whether you like him or whether you are asking just out of curiosity. If you like him, give him a kiss on the cheek and see how he reacts. If you're just curious then discuss the subject with him and tell him how he is saying he doesn't like you but that he is acting like he does.

Good luck! George

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