what should i do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hi, it s me again. i hope u remember my story...
well, we started to contact again. he even asked me out last week, but i was not free. so, i called him today for catching up. we talked for an hour. what he told me is that he really liked me before and he still thinks of me sometimes, but the problem is that he kept asking me for sex. well, he just asked, he doesnt take action, cox he did that all the time. i screwed up again, then i asked "what if i say yes or i say no" then he said "if u say yes, something ll happen, n if u say no, nothing will happen" then i replied "no", but he still kept asking, why did he do that? was he playing me?
another problem is that he hung up suddenly, i felt hurt cox of that.
i feel like i sent myself to be played and got hurt.
i think he probably doesnt like me. i really want to move on. everytime i contact him i feel so stressful. i dont know y i cant forget him for such a long time, probably i didnt meet another guy. i m not an attractive person, i wanna move on but where is another guy.
so now i in a dilemma, i wanna move on, but i cant find another guy and i wanna wait, but he doesnt seem to be interested in me. can u plx give some advices? thx
You need to move on, even if you don't have someone else waiting.
This guy is using you as you seem to know. Why put yourself through that. Life is too short to let someone else hammer you on the head.
You say you are not attractive. You can change this. Work on your physical appearance (grooming, clothing, hygiene), your intellectual ability (read books, newspapers), and your emotional presentation (be happy, witty, charming, etc.) None of this is really easy to do and takes motivation. But, it is doable and then you will start attracting guys.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com