she wants to but has memories that bother her

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
ok so me and my girlfriend end up...alot of the time alone getting seriously intimate and well....everything i do she enjoys but...it brings up memories of her ex because he was one of those guys who got what he wanted...no matter what and i would just like to no how to get her over that so it doesn't become a problem later on down the road

RomanceClass.com Advice
This is more of a problem for your girl to solve, but you can help.

Talk it over with her and see if she has suggestions about what you can do differently so it won't remind her of him. Ask her to call you by your name while you are intimate so she is clear who she is with.

Maybe this will help. It's a hard question.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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