love, friend, love, fight.... what to do?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
last year me and this girl(who i have always liked) started to go out and everything was great. But then everything came to a hault. She started picking fights on little things and we thought it would be best to take a break or w/e and try later. So i was really mad and without thinking told this other girl i liked her i don't know why.(The bad thing was that she was her friend). But i came to my senses and broke it off.
But this year I really started to like the first girl a lot and couldnt get her out of my mind. Today i was about to tell her but then she started a fight about why i led her friend on, and she said some hurtful things to me. Which is making me second guess my decision and start to lean away from her. Is this permanent or just few a few days or something. Cause we are going to graduate this year and i need to know if it is worth it.
She, like you, probably has a lot of things on her mind like school, friends, parents, etc. That might make her a little edgy and say things she really doesn't mean. Or maybe she means them but doesn't express herself well.
So my advice is to give her another chance and if she blows it then let her go.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com