Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
look im 14 and im in high school i like this girl and back in 6th grade she went to my middle shool and i liked her then too and we were friends and are friends now and in 7th grade she moved so i havent seen her till now im a freshman and so is she and if i ask her out and she says no i dont waant her not to talk to me and everybody will laugh at me if she says no but im scared of getting rejected and i have been rejected many times before so my question is should i ask her out? if so where and how? Advice
Instead of asking her out, take a different approach.

Some time when you are alone, tell her you are "developing feelings" for her. She probably won't answer right away but maybe she will feel the same way.

If she doesn't answer right away, take the very next opportunity you get to ask her if she had time to think about it. You should get a good idea of how she feels at this point.

If she says she likes you then you can ask her out.

This way nobody will laugh at you because you never asked her to go out until after she said she likes you.

Good luck! George

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