What should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
We are into one university,We first talked in the net.After 3 days of chating,I introduced myself in person.After 1 week i get her number, we chat and text alot and i can say that she is really interested because she always say that I make her laugh and I can see that she really cares for me(That is through text and chatting in the net). When I approach her sometimes in person I was really very shy and nervous(she was also a shy girl). It was always awkward when we talk in person. After 3 weeks she ask me out with her friends. I come with her and I was really a jerk that time. Her friends tried to make us talked but I just smile and do not talk. I talked but a little only. (That day was really a turn off to her. I did alot of things that a girl will really hate, like she borrowed my phone and i did not let her see my messages.)After this, she said that we can only be friends only. It has been 1 1/2 months ago since she said that,After she said that, we don't chat, text and talk a lot anyore, except for hi and hello when we see each other.I tried talking to her but she can't look at me and she seems like not interested anymore. What should I do? please help..
She is not interested in you anymore.
My advice is to look for a new girl. Also, practice your social skills so you aren't so shy. Think of things to talk about before meeting the girl.
Build yourself up physically (this includes grooming, dress), intellectually (read about the news), and socially (go to concerts, dances, school activities).
This will make you feel better about yourself and make you less shy.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com