Is she or is she not interested?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have this new co-worker at work. Within two days of meeting me she told a fellow co-worker she had this dream where she was flying in the sky with this guy and that that guy was me. Since then I have been looking for signs if she likes me. When I first started to talk to her she would maintain eye contact longer then she does now and stand closer to me than she does now. She said something funny and I teased her about it and she laughed about it. Left her a note on my way out of work once, she left me one on my car. She stayed back after clocking off to make the note she left on my car. Typed her up a funny name and put it on her mailbox, she took the time on her break to cut out letters to make up a name and put it on my mailbox. But, she jokes with everyone more and talks to them more than me, I am one of her managers and she calls all the other managers more than me. I fell like (or want to fell) like she is interested. The same co-worker she told the dream to said he could find out if she likes me or not. Should I give him the ok to ask? But, my biggest question is if she (and girls in general) are interested why do they ignore and avoid you? Most guys have no hesitation approching the girl they like if they give us the right signs or just enough signs, so why is she making things so complicate? HEEEELLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!
P.S. Sorry if I made this to long. This is all over a months period trying to put in as much helpfull hints as I can to get my question answered. Sorry for the P.S.
She is probably giving you mixed signs because her feelings are mixed.
Why not ask her out and see what happens. She will probably say yes because she is interested in you and needs to get to know you better before she makes any commitments.
She may very well be asking the same question about you. You gave her a lot of attention and she returned it...so why didn't you pursue her. Look at it from her perspective.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com