why he doesnt show up when he promised to meet?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I emailed before to ask how to contact my ex. i emailed him last week and he got back to me that he had called me and asked me to call him, so i called. we talked for a little while cox i was leaving home for a trip, so he asked me to call after i've come back home. I was planning to txt msg him today, but he called me in the morning and we talked for 40 mins and i thought we had fun. he said i could call him if i want to meet. then, i asked if we could meet today cox today is holiday which i thought we both were free but he might've held back a bit. but anyways, he said we could meet after 4pm. and around 2pm he txt msg that he couldn't meet. i waited for half hour and txt msg him back that it was ok. and now i ve been waiting for 4 hours and he doesnt call. this happened for many times when we were dating and now it happens again. i really dont know y that he contacts me but doesnt show up the meetings? is he playing me? or he actaully doesn't want to contact? or other reasons?
People are people and do things for unknown reasons. He might not even know himself why he does what he does.
It is possible that it makes him feel in charge (controlling) when he does this to you. He probably does it to other people too.
Since it bothers you why not ask him about it?
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com