Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Over the last 7/8 weeks (most of summer) i have been seeing this girl and becoming quite close to her. Several times i have been out with her and we have frenched kissed both while watching a film at mine as well as on a walk. We have met up on several occasions and have always been very close and held each others hands etc. She has also been calling me and i have called her for general chat etc. Later on in the summer i asked ger to come on a day out with me to a local show. She came along and we had a fantasic time as well as engaging in all the usuall activities such as holding hands, kissing etc. After this day out i decided that i really really liked this person and decided to send her a message stating that i was falling for her. Since this message she doesnt seem interested in me anymore and i get the impression that shes ignoring me. I have tried to contact her and have only done so once but she has made no attempts to contact me??? i find this really werid considering we were so close!
Sounds like she wasn't ready to advance the relationship.
Write her and tell her that you now realize that you two are not ready for an advanced relationship but that you would like to return to what you had which was fun.
Ask her out to do something and see what she says.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com