Does he like me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Okay so my brother has this friend that I talk to every once in a while and I'm starting to think he MAY like me, but I'm not too sure.
Everytime he does see me, he puts his arm around me when talking to me.
He's always staring at me wherever he sees me and if I walk past him, he keeps on looking at me.
In his lacrosse games, if he does something good, for example. gets the ball, he always looks at me and does a nod.
He always tries to talk to me about something, even the most randomest things, like the lunar eclipse that was going on.
Then he's always teasing me about things but then says at the end 'you know I didn't really mean any of that, right?'.
Then once at a town fair, everywhere I went, he seemed to be there by himself meanwhile all his friends were in a group somewhere else.
Then last night, he randomly IMed me online after not talking to each other for a month. So after I had a little conversation with him, I put up an away message because I was upset and didn't feel like talking. Then he IMed me back asking me what's wrong and wouldn't stop till I told him. Then he kept trying to make me feel better by telling me it wasn't all my fault and that it wasn't as bad as it seemed. And when he found out I wanted to run away, he kept persuading me not to.
Now that last one seemed really weird because usually he's never THAT nice to me, ever. Our usual conversations consist of making fun of each other and getting in fights over little things.
So does he like me or is he just trying to be good friends with me?
He likes you AND he wants to be good friends with you.
Keep on joking with him and pretty soon he will probably ask you out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com