has he changed or he jus going to do the same thing that he did to his ex?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hello, Im really confused. i have this boyfriend who is really good to me. we been going out for almost two months now. but im worried about his past relationship. the last girl he was with, he sais ever since the first day him and his ex went out, they had sex wveryday for three years( and we never had sex. we only kissed two times) also he got his ex pregnant, they argued all of the time, and he used to yell and cuss her out allot. I asked him y they used to argue allot, he said that they hated each other and that they wasnt clicking, and the only time they liked being together was when they was high or having sex. and he said that she used to always play games with his head. so i asked why he used to go with her. he said because he heard that she was a freak. i asked him why did he go with me (cuz he didnt hear i was a freak im still a virgin) he said because im sexy, nice, easy to talk to, he likes being around me, and that i hav a good personality. he said that he liked me ever since he first saw me( he was still going with his ex then) we never argue, im easy to get along with. also he said yhat he is willing to wait to have sex with me. he says he loves me etc.........i tell people that we go out, they tell me that he is no good, he is going to cheat on me, he is lying to me, he is going to run back to his baby mama, and that im jus a rebound, and that he is going to treat me the same as he treated her. i confronted my boyfriend about that he said it all wasnt true and that he was lying.( yesterday he kissed me in front of everybody and all his friends) i asked him about what people was saying and he said that they was all lying. i want to know if theres a possibility that all those people could be right and that he jus playing me? thank you for taking your time and reading this!!!!!!!
All the things that people are telling you are what he is GOING to do. In other words they are guessing about the future. So, of course, it is possible that they will turn out to be wrong. Who knows what the future is going to bring?
For two months now your boyfriend has been a perfect friend and BF. It would be better for you to accept him as a good person and not worry that he is playing you. If he were playing you, that would show he was a bad person and you have no evidence that he is like that so far.
So keep it going but with your eyes and brain open to possibilities.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com