what should i make of this
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
What should i make up of the fact that evry time me and this girl meet she will flirt with me: she will fidget in her hair, her skin tone becomes red around me, she gives me long open wide stares, she is confused when i compliment her beauty.
In our recent classes together, she has been fighting to sit next to me. When she do sit next to me, we talk in each others ears and she seems to like that very much.
I asked her to join me at one of my family events and she accepted to attend. We also agreed to go clubbing some other time. However, she came back few days latter and told me she will not be going to the party because he grand mother is sick. I dont know how true this is and she was trying to convince me that it was true. She also stated that she never agreed to go clubbing. Why is she acting this way when she seems to have some feelings for me. Should i still pursue her or just leave her alone even though i am very interested in her too. Turning down the dates is driving me crazy.
Usually when you get turned down for a date, the woman makes sure to let you know that she is still interested in going out. Unless she is not interested.
Wait and see if she still flirts with you and fights to sit next to you. If she doesn't, she must have lost interest in you. You could outright ask her if you want to be sure.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com