she is so confusing!
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
well anyways there is this girl she is homeschooled but i still see her almost every day iv known her for 4 years now and were just friends. i knew a long time ago she liked me but that was when we were like 10. now i like her and have liked her for the longest time. i just got her cell phone number a long time ago and have been textng her alot and she has been texting me back alot and once she even asked me if i was flirting with her. the wierd thing is though is ever since i have gotten her number we have not talked alot in public only by text. and now all of a sudden ive been texting her and she would text like 1 message and then stop when i still wanted to talk to her. there is also the fact that all my guy friends know that i like her and i am afraid that she knows now. so now i am afraid she is trying to avoid me and i am too afraid to make a move or anything because i am not sure if she likes me or not and ive realized that some of my guy friends have been talking to her and i am hoping that they dont like her too because if they do that is unfair because they just lust for her and i think i love her and the more she does not talk to me the more i like her she is the most confusing girl. whenever i am around my friends i feel discouraged and dont talk and i am not as funny but when i am alone with her i can be a really good smooth talker so if i can get to talk to her alone it will workout.
so please tell me what to do.
You are going to have to take the bull by the horns.
Tell her directly person-to-person, by phone, or text that you like her and ask her to hang out.
You are getting hung up on worrying to much about this. Just do it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com