i'm unsure of what to do
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've wrote in before but anyway I like this guy. He says he likes me but we're not going out. He regularly tells me he likes me too. Well recently I've noticed he's been chatting up other girls, like calling them beautiful and things and just generally being flirty with them. (My friend also noticed he does it online too, like chats up girls on websites and message boards.) He doesn't really seem the type to do this but anyway he's doing it. I really like this guy and I dunno what to do. I want to ask him about it and ask why he's doing it but I don't want to scare him away. Do you think he's just taking me for a ride? I don't know what to do and I'm so confused about it all. By the way he doesn't know I know about him flirting and stuff.
Yes I think he is taking you for a ride and my advice is to forget about him.
If he cared for you he wouldn't be acting the way he is.
In short, he is a player and you don't need that in your life.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com