Hard what should I do??????
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I met this guy a few months ago I have not delevopled the feelings to move forward and I do not want to hurt him anymoe than I have to naturally. I like him as a friend,we have had fun times. I hate leading people on and he is a great guy, just not for me in a romantic sense. I want to break it off but this one is harder for me than any other break up I have done partially because he has really been supportive, what should I do and what is the best approach ????? deseprate help.
The best approach is honesty.
Tell him what you told me and if he is at all understanding, and my guess is he is, he will be disappointed but not devastated.
Point out all of his good characteristics but then say that friendship would be great but that moving beyond where you are now is just not a happening thing.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com