Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
It's a difficult situation. I started dating this girl, but all of a sudden she just wanted to be friends. We both are attracted to each other but she is having trouble with an ex-husband and an ex-boy friend who won't leave her alone and kind of pushed her to want us be just friends. She loves having me around, but those two guys made it worse for me to keep the relationship healthy. I want to know how I can get her to come closer to me and show more love and feelings that I know she is hiding from me.
Try just being friends for a while.
She is likely to be drawn back into a romantic relationship given some time. This is particularly likely since you know she is hiding love and feelings from you right now.
If children are involved, perhaps once school starts she will feel less pressured and have more time for a boyfriend.
As a friend, you can be a sounding board for the problems she is having with her exes. This will draw you closer together.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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