What to do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am in relationship since two years. We had a medium level relationship as he had relationship wid two girls. With one he had physical relationship as he told to me. He askd me in b/w when I was attached to him. He askd m to decide. I said i want to be wid u. I think at that time i made a mistake. What do u suggest?
Well now everthg is very open. We are very intimate wid each other but i find him sumtimes very problematic. He doesnt listen m n make fun of m. He doesnt take marraige seriously. I mean agrees to marry but doesnt start first never!!My parents are nt ready!!I am reaady to leave my parents n go wid him but he never appreciates that.
I am tensed. He just insulted me in front of car-trainer by saying that she does a lot of mistakes and cud nt learn the driving in time, less capable.Also askd m nt to learn further.
I want to learn bt I cant communicate. He is being rude to me. He wants me to just do it as he says. When i am upset he hardly asks n pampers m. He is busy in his life. What's this? Is this love or sumthg else?
Its hard for m to take a bold decision to break off but i am losing my mental peice and suffering work also.
You are old enough to realize that this relationship is not a good bet.
Good, strong feelings need to exist before you even think of marriage. He doesn't sound like a good marriage partner the way he treats you.
You need someone who cares for you and makes you happy.
My advice is to leave him behind and find someone new.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com