What does he want??
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I had been dating this guy for almost 2 years. Towards the end of our relationship we started having major problems. He started being really rude to me and did numerous things to push me away. I was in love so I tried to look past these signs. Durign those last 5 months of our relationship he broke up with me 3 times, each time coming back and saying that he missed me and loved me and that I was the one for him. During each break up we kept in contact. After our last breakup which was about a week ago I decided to give him space and not call or text him. I think I'm done but had just moved in together and were talking about the rest of our lives together. Do I just give up on two years, or face the fact that he might have changed and no longer loves me?
The problem is a lack of communications.
You've broken up three times now and yet you don't seem to know why it happens. In order to overcome this problem, you and your BF need to talk very seriously about your current relationship before talking about the future.
Ask him to talk about it since you have two years invested in each other.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com