I'm wondering so hard.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My ex and I broke up for 2 months, and we're on talking terms after the breakup. We still talk as friends. He was my first bf and I was his first too.
There was this time when we were chatting online and he came to know that I was sick.
I needed someone to wake me up to take my medication so I asked him if he was willing to do it, in a joking manner, that is. He said he will message me. So that night he did messaged me to tell me its time to take my medicine.
I was fast asleep then so I didn't reply to it, 15 minutes later he called me up to wake me up for medication.
He once said it's better for us to stay as friends. I am still not over him I really love him so much.
What exactly does he mean by calling me up I really wanted to know. He could have just send that message and not bother if I reply or not.
He called you because you are a good friend.
That's what you are now--good friends. As I mentioned in the last questions you sent, you will have to be patient and hope he grows attached to you again.
Do the obvious things like share info with him, share feelings with him, and be affectionate (smiles, laughs, hugs, compliments, etc.)
Also take care of your body, mind, and spirit. Appearance (hair, dress, hygiene) is important, your intellect can always be improved by reading or watching the news, and try to be uplifting in spirit (be happy, pleasant,etc.)
Hopefully he will regrow his love for you! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com