shes going out more with her ex and not telling

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well ive been with my girlfriend for about 2 months now, things moved pretty fast, but i noticed that there was always, always someone who wanted her (shes very good looking) and i cant always know whats going on. i know that she cheated on her last boyfriend, but it was by accident, she said she didnt plan it, i believe that because i know what happened, but her boyfriend is still interested in her. i know her myspace password and i read her messages, and for a while he went away, but recently hes talking to her again, and hes always asking if shes still with me. but then i noticed a strange message, he asked her to go out and get high, and she said ok. now its not the most comfortable thing thinking that your girlfriend is going out with her single ex boyfriend who still wants her, and is going to go get high, and in her backyard too. and when i asked her what she was doing that day she just said going out with her friends, and thats it. as a matter of fact, she said she wanted to go out with me today, but she ended up going out with him instead. if she chose to go out with him instead of me, then what does that mean? please help ='[ Advice
You need to have further gentle understanding talks with her.

Tell her what you know and let her know that you don't think that is a smart thing for her to do. Getting high, ex BF and girl, being alone all add up to trouble. She may be completely innocent, but she is playing with fire and it upsets you.

She will be angry that you used her password and you should tell her you are sorry and won't do it again.

Good luck! George

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