I really like her and she knows it
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Okay, well first of all, Hi.
Well there's this girl that I have liked for some time now. She used to be my batch mate in my previous school before I moved to a different school.
She's such a nice person, that even if there would be a guy (me) that would like her, and she likes another guy, she would still be open with her feelings to me. She cares so much for other people's feelings that she doesnít want to hurt others.
I knew her before we even met since I see her around the campus. We have been talking every time after we met. When we met, I told her I liked her.
ME: "Can I tell you something..."
HER: "Sure. ‹ I will listen"
ME: "well. Thereís this girl I really like, however, I donít know if she likes another guy.. And I'm scared that, if she likes another guy, she might reject me. I just donít want to get hurt.. What should I do? ..."
HER: "well... Whoís the girl first?"
ME: "well... I donít know If I should tell you since you might get angry..."
HER: "no I won't get angry for sure. I promise"
ME: "well. Honestly... I really like you... and I hope you wouldn't get angry...."
HER: "well... honestly, I like you too ... :D ‹"
After that conversation, I really felt happy, although I was thinking if she just said she liked me too so as to not hurt me, or if she also meant it.
Recently, we were talking.
I told her:
ME: ďCan I tell you something?"
HER: "sure. ‹"
ME: "well. Remember the time before when I told you I like you? Well, that was before because now I feel more than just simply liking you. I hope you won't get angry.. I love you"
HER: "oh. Well.. Iím not angry :) I understand how you feel :) and it's all fine with me. :)"
ME: "Thanks for understanding me... I love you"
Then we talked more after that.
Some days after that conversation... We were talking. Before she went away.. I told her:
ME: "umÖ Goodnight, sweet dreams, take care, and I love you"
HER: "this is the first time I will tell you that I love you too ‹ :D"
Then she went away..
I just donít know if she means the things she is saying to me or just doesnít want to hurt my feelings, it's not that I think she is lying to me, but I am totally unsure... and I need help... :D Thanks!
The girl of your dreams has told you she loves you!
Don't dilly-dally wondering about it. Keep telling her you love her and ask her out. If you don't she will start wondering about you and if you are telling the truth. She could get tired of waiting and find someone new.
Go for the gold... she is standing there waiting for you to do something.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com