Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I was introduced to a guy by one of my friends. He was very familiar and soon after the introduction I recognized him from a testing room I was in that year. We never really talked to each other but to the people around us. I always thought he had a thing for one of my other friends. One night I was drinking with friends and *he was there. Well one thing led to another and we ended up kissing. I can remember our conversation and I remember him saying he didn't want anything serious. I wasn't exactly aiming for a relationship either but he ended up putting his own number into my phone. I forgot about it and figured he wouldn't call. Two days later he called. We talked for four hours and I absolutely loved his personality. He told me we would hang out on Wednesday(he called on Monday) He didn't call the next day but we did hang out on Wednesday. He told me some things that I wasn't sure I should believe like.. He wished he had met me sooner and he liked my personality. He also mentioned i was beautiful..alot. We hung out two days later with a phone call in between and I just feel so comfortable around him. Our conversations run smoothly but i don't think it wise to actually *talk to him because it may not be what he wants and he is going off to college. another thing is that everytime we hang out we do stuff. not sex but..things. I'm afraid I'm being used but then I'm stumped because while we are kissing he stops to look at me...for a long time. What should I do and what in the world could he be thinking???
Keep doing what you are doing and ask him what he is thinking about.
Your situation sounds rather normal... girl meets boy, they hang out, they kiss, he's going to college, is he taking advantage of her... but he looks at her for long periods of time.
Enjoy it! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com