I want to but I dont want to.

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
See I'm 15 and I like this guy and he likes me and I want to have sex with him but Im scared of what he'll think because its my first time. And I really like him but I wonder if he only like what he see's not whats inside....how can I tell? And sometimes when I'm with him he'll kind of push to have sex but I tell him no and he leaves it at that, is that good or bad?

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You should only have sex when you are ready and it's the right guy.

You have doubts about how he will feel about you, you have doubts about whether he respects you for more than your body, and you worry about him pushing you for sex.

None of these make for a good first sexual experience.

If you are close enough to have sex, then you should be close enough to talk about your feelings with him. If you can't have meaningful, long, conversations with him then you are not ready for sex.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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