Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok lets c...i like my best friend. we met dis year & gotten realli close, but since the first time we tlk i like her. i ask her out like 3 times & was rejected each time, but r still realli close, she knows tht i still like her but its harder 4 me. she just broke up w/ her last BF but tht wont change how she feel bout me. i try 2 not obess or wrry bout it & its wrkin but its startin not 2. im at a point where if im not careful i might fall in "love" w/ her, not sayin thts bad, but i dont think i should. i cant distract myself 2 stop thinkin bout her either. idk wat2 do, idk y i continue 2 wait, & y like her so much? what should i do now? cauz i can b w/ her but its 2 hard 2 simply move on, especially since i dont hav feelins 4 any1 else like dis, also shes away & i was thinkin of leavin at her home a stuf bear or sumthng as a gift 4 her return idk if tht'll b such a good idea tho. any advice in wat i should do now? thnxs in advance
I like your idea of leaving a stuffed bear at her house.
Write something goofy like "Give me a hug and I'll give you a hug back from ______ (your name)"
When you see her again, pay close attention to communicating with her, also sharing feelings, and being affectionate (smiling, hugs, compliments, etc.)
Work on making yourself more attractive to her: pay attention to your grooming, dress, hygiene, intellectual activities. Do interesting things and she may wish she was doing them with her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com