what does she really wants?? (part2)
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
First of all thanks a lot George for your great advice and help.
Will I started doing what you told me too, and everything is fine we are hanging out every day and another but not for long periods of time just for like 2 hours maximum a day, but George the problem is I really love her and I am lucky that she is back in my life even though for now we are only friends, but I get those feelings like wanting to hold her hand or to kiss her and it is really hard to pretend to be friends.
My question to you is how long I should take this, or in other words is their point out of this, is it possible she would suddenly want a relationship.
Or should I just go ahead and tell her how I feel. The only problem with that plan is that I am too afraid she will reject me and ill even lose this chance of being with her again.
I donít know why she is being like that ever since we broke up according to her and her friends she hasnít been willing to be in any relationship saying that she is not ready yet, how can I make her ready again what does she needs me to do.
Thanks a lot for your help and support hope to hear from you soon.
What she needs right now is simply a friend.
Many people have hidden their love while being a friend. The friend part should come easily since you care for her so much.
So, bit the bullet and be her friend. Every once and a while you can mention that you miss the good times you had when you were a couple.
Be prepared for this to take a while, since you know she isn't ready for a relationship. Consider yourself lucky she enjoys you as a friend.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com