Love or a career?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
OK... To some it up:

I have known this girl for 2 years now, and we have grown so close we can pretty much finish eachothers sentences. I've been her best friend for a year and a half now. Recently, we have started getting attractive and very sensual with eachother.

Then I was given an opportuninty to be able to go to a job 1200 miles away. A pretty decent job that I would like. I would leave 10 months from now if I took it. Well, the problem is: She doesnt want a relationship if its just going to end in 10 months. This girl means the world to me, I would put myself in mounds of danger, just to save her. I can actually say "I love her.".

She even told me, that if we had a relationship we would last the distance and stay together.

What should I do? Choose the Job or MY LOVE? Advice
You can have both your job and your love.

She said that she thinks a long-distance romance would work. So, enjoy your relationship for the next 10 months and after that continue remotely.

You could come back frequently to see her and eventually she may move to be with you. Or you may decide to quit the job and move back to where you are now.

It's not the best solution, but worth a try.

Good luck! George

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