i want her back bad
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
me and this gril went out for a while we got close really fast but then after a sometime she tells me she has to breakup with me b/c family issues but she still loved me so at first im ok then i start thinking and it tears me apart so the next night i tried to get back together and she kept saying no so a few days pass and im hanging out with my friend the one who hooked me and her up he ask te real reason and after about an hour she finally tells him that her dad hated me cause im a diffrent race adn he threatend to hurt me and if she didnt get a "white" boyfriend she would be in major trouble so after hearing this the truth i felt so much better so weeks go by she has a new boyfriend the guy she was dating before me and her got together and two days ago they broke up because she hated him she told my other friend the only reason she was dating the guy was because of her dad so the day after she broke up with him i snuk out stole my moms van picked up my friend then his girlfriend then my ex and went back to my friends house and chilled i had planned to ask her out again this night so she came up and hugged me then kissed her hand and placed it on my forhead and said "your the awsomeist" and so the night went on and i tickled her like i always do and she really didnt hit me like she used to i dont thik she cared then i went and sat on the couch and she came and sat next to me and put her feet under my leg and she let me tickle her feet so then she gets up and eat some food then comes back and i tickle her but i have my arm around her then i stop and she lets me hold her i wanted so bd to kiss her right there but i couldnt something kept holding me back soa bout that time it was time to bring her home and she kept telling me it was so fun and we needed to do it again and i drop her off and she kisses her hand and places it on my forhead again then calls me when she gets inside to tell me she got in alright. I want to know if we still have that chemistry from before and if there is a chance for us she stays on the phone with me ever since she broke up with her boyfriend and she ask for my hat when i get another one
i think our relationship could work if she didnt tell her parents i mean we get to hang out all the time i bring her to the movies and stuff and they dont care her mom really dosentcare its just her dad and hes never really home
You haven't actually asked a question, just described a situation.
My comment is that you two have to do what you have to do. Generally speaking kids should listen to their parents, but we all know that doesn't always happen. This girl obviously likes you so that's not a problem.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com