I am confused about his feelings for me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
We have been friends for abot 5 years. We both were always close. Our other frineds sometimes tease us both about each other and none of us mind that. The problem is he was in love with this other girl for quite a long time but the girl was not. He was pretty upset about it. Then after we finished highschool he went to England for higher studies. While stayin there we talked for hours online and sometimes over the phone. He once proposed me over the phone but I thought he was joking. When all my other friends got to know about it he said he was just kidding. Later on he again proposed me online while chatting. But when i asked him that whether he was completely over with the girl he used to like he said he was sort of over her. But this answer confused me so i didn't reply. Now he is back on summer vacation and we hang around a lot. Though he is very mushy over phone and when we are alone but he is a completely different person when other friends are around. And when our other friends ask him whether he likes me he denies it. One of my frinds noticed his behaiviour towards me and said that he does care a lot for me. But I am confused because his attitude confuses me. And whenever all of us friends sit togather and if somehow the topic of his previous love comes up, he looks very sad. This thing confuses me a lot. I just want advice on whether he really likes me and whether i should go out with him if he asks me out again.
Help him share his feelings about his ex with you.
That seems to be the main stumbling block in your relationship.
Whatever he says, be gentle with him and tell him you understand. Or if you don't understand then ask more questions.
Based on these conversations, you will have to decide whether to go out with him if he asks you again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com