I'm in love with another mans girl
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Person
I am a 16 year old man, I find myself very responsible for my age, the girl I like I have known fro 3 years, I met her through my best friend and they dated for awhile, He has no problem with me liking her, me and her have been getting really close over the past 2 weeks, which terrified me because she does have a boyfriend that she cares about, she is also a very emotional person, she blamed herself for alot of stuff going on in her life and I do my best to comfort her. she says I am the perfect person for her to talk to. we were talking over the phone and the mood seemed right we were listening to each other over the phone without saying a word but typing it on messenger like " Dont tell anyone this is a secret, but this guy really cares about you" She told me she had fallen in love with me which shocked me because she does have a boyfriend, I love her aswell. We were lovey dovey, but I started feeling horrible because she does have a boyfriend and she also loves him, she says shes confuzed because she loves us both and this scares me, she blamed herself for all this saying she flirted with me when she had a man, while I blame myself for being selfish when she has a man. I have liked this girl for 2 years and Now I feel madly in love with her and I dont know what to do
I'm sorry you are in this situation.
You should explain to her that although you care for deeply, you don't feel comfortable having a romantic relationship while she has a boyfriend.
Let her know that if she and her boyfriend break up you will be standing by waiting for her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com