How do i not hurt him?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
okay so i was with my exboyfriend for 360 days (practiclaly a year) and we broke up a little over a week ago. I started to hang out with a guy from my school after we broke up and 6 days after we had been broken up and i said yes to being his girlfriend. I had a lot of fun with him, but he had to leave for Canada for a week and half now and i can't talk to him. My ex boyfriend called me last night and said that he would do anything for me and that he changed. I love him very much and the reasons we broke up he promised he changed, so i want to be with him again. Now my boyfriend i am with now i have no contact with cause there is no reseption where he is in Canada and i have no way of telling him. I really don't want to hurt him he is a great guy and did nothing wrong i do like him but he just doesn't give me the butterflies my ex(ish)boyfriend does. I told my exboyfriend about my new boyfriend and said i wont be with him till i talk to my boyfriend and brake up with him. But the thing is i don't want to break up with him i mean i want to be out of this relationship with him cause i want my exboyfriend but i don't want to hurt him. I don't think it is fair to him and i feel really bad. Is there a way i can come out of this without hurting him badly. Should i break up with him?
When the boy in Canada comes back, tell him what happened.
I'll bet he doesn't care.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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