Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hello, i have a few questions i would like to no answers to that have been sort of confusing me ... where i live all the girls are having sex and doing stuff with the guys even if there not in relationships ... but i would rather wait to find the right person ... but i feel like i am never going to be able to find a right person ... do guys like you better if you just wait before you do things with them ? .. also when i am around guys i feel like they are all just wanting to mess around with me and not actually have anything more .. how do you begin a relationship that isnt just sex? and how do you find the right person
All girls are not the same and all boys are not the same.
There are many varieties of each... some who are promiscuous and some who are unkissed (and that applies to boys and girls both.)
So don't think you are so different from everyone else.
To find a "nice" boy look around... they are everywhere. Now that it is summer, it is more difficult to meet them (assuming you are still in school.)
Ask your friends if they know any nice boys you might be interested in. Go to a church youth group. Take karate! There are lots of things you can do to meet boys. The next step is to get to know them and decide whether you like them or not. If you don't like them, move on to another.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com