Falling for a Friend
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and we recently moved in together. The whole reason we moved in together was because we moved across the country. We have met so many new people, and one guy has really caught my attention. He's sweet and listens to me, but he clearly has commitment issues, he's even confessed that to me. I don't know how he feels about me, but I can I know he trusts me and flirts too. The more time I spend with him, the more confused I get. My boyfriend is my 1st love, and only serious relationship I've ever had, so I can't help but wonder if he's the one I'm supposed to spend forever with.
Have a gentle, caring talk with your BF and explain your feelings.
He deserves to know and if you two have a good relationship it could be a bump in the road. Or worse case a rupture.
But, since you have only had one love and are wondering if he is the right one forever, you also will benefit from talking with your BF.
Trust is one of the most important aspects of a relationship, so trust your boyfriend.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com