lONG DISTANCE BITES
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I month ago a broke up with my ex , or it was more like he did the breaking. I am not one to share my emotions, but there was something there. I told him I cared a lot more then he expected. He also agreed he cared but with his two jobs and training he would have no time for a long distance girlfriend. We chatted for a bit. I txt a lot, which I have read is a no no . He finally told me he slept with another girl and received oral stimulation from another. He claims being single right now well , we are apart is a good thing. But when he finds out that I talk to other guys he gets defensive , and say its cool and stuff and doesn't matter. He keeps giving me false hope , claiming he wants to see me when I come back for school and such , however the other night he claimed by not talking to me constantly is making me not dependent , I wasn't dependent before. His words are misleading ,and confusing , everyone claims I am wasting time but I still have hope ? What should I do? I want him back in my life.
You might ask yourself whether you want a cheater back in your life.
If you do, remain friends with him and keep communicating, sharing feelings, and expressing affection.
Let him know you still care for him so he won't get confused about that.
These are tough things to do long distance, but it only means you have to try harder.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com