i need my ex
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
the first time i ever meet her i could tell she had a huge crush on me. the first time i ever meet her she wanted a huge at the end, and wanted my #. she always emailed me, and we talked on the phone about 2 times a week. well, i knew she had a crush on me, and decided to ask her out. but after about a month of a relationship i saw the breakup coming. she stoped calling me as much and things like that. she no longer had a crush on me. we broke up. now we havn't talked on the phone sence the breakup (i dont know if that is a bad thing or not) but we are still friends. i am taking her to a concert in august, and i need some good advise in a way to make her get that crush she had on me when she first meet me. i dont know why she had that crush, and i dont know why it went away, i just know i want it back, because if i have it back, i can ask her out aagain. btw the reason she brokeup with me (atleast what she told me) is she views me more as a friend. i just want her back. :(
Try to be her very best friend.
Be communicative and discuss facts, things, friends, etc. Be compassionate by sharing your feelings like best friends do. Be affectionate and laugh with her, smile at her, hug her, etc.
She may gradually grow back that crush feeling. But feelings are mysterious and you can't expect them to appear upond demand or wish.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com