Getting to know A Dime Piece Friend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I have a girl thats my friend that I've know for 4 years. By far, she is the most beautifulest girl Ive ever seen n person in my life. We both hav sum type of attraction to each other although, we a a year apart in age. (Im a year older than her, she's a sophmore, im a junior. Since we go to different high schools, i never got a chance to hang out with her. Sometime before school stars im goin to ask if we could meet up at the mall or sumthing. This is my concern. Since she is sooo pretty, basiclly all of her Boy-friends are her x's. And most of her other close friends are her cuzins. I just need to know how could I really get to know her insides, other than her beautiful face.She jus told me wut college shes goin 2 and it so happened to b da same 1 im goin 2. So u know how excited i am. I want to be the man that she'll c sumthing different from me and all her x's. What could we talk about and stuff like that?
Try to become a very good friend with her.
Important aspects of a good relationship are: communication (daily talk, information), compassion (sharing feelings), and affection (smiling, joking, hugging, etc).
Your idea of meeting at the mall is a good one and you should go for it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com