Extremely Unusual Break up what to do to get her back????Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My and my girlfriend had been together for six years. It was a relationship with ups and downs but we loved each other. The main problem was that her family didn't like me and they were doing everything that we could to separate us, but they couldn't because we were meant for each other. 7 Months ago she started giving me pressure to get married and is not that i didn't want to or love her. I just didn't think it was the right time.( what a mistake).. a month later. something really bad happened ( is not relevant). the fact is that she had to leave the country and she did. From that point on we did speak about marriage and i told her that i was going to stay some months here in the state to save some money so we could live somewhere else. but the pressure of her family and also some mistakes that i made ( like not treating her right.. i was victim of terrible stress). made her doubt so she started getting confused and 10 days ago she called me to tell me that she wanted time for herself,for a new life and that she was tired of begging me to get married with her. I went completely nuts, fell into depression I told her that we would get married right away but she says that i should have said that 7 months ago, she's acting very harsh and now she even tells me that she doesn't love me anymore and that she doesn't even want me to go look for her overseas. I don't know what to do. she loved me more than anything in the world. How do i know if this is what she really feels. Is there hope for me, being so far away to win her back. if so how?.. I'm lost and i want that woman to be the mother of my children, what can i do?? Please HELP!!!!
It's only been a week or more that she said this to you.
Don't think she will throw away six years based on something she said so recently.
If you want to convince her that you love her and want to marry her leave now and find her where ever she is and beg her to marry you.
Maybe you should tell her in advance that you are coming so she can be ready for you.
Good luck! George
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