Lost.......Stay friends?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hey, thanks for reading!

ok.. there is this guy I love! There is no like to it.. sad huh? Anyway I met him in 6th grade, I had only one class with him that year. We didn't know each other, I'd never seen him before but he looked like an "ok" friend so of course I wanted to be his freind. But my other friends kept telling me he was gay. So I just kept quiet, but one day he just walks up to me and says this really stupid sentence. I laughed and we were INSTANT friends.
He always would scare me or tell jokes, you know friendly stuff. But I always denied liking him, {other people asked} to keep the great friend ship we had. That year ended great, he always let out deep feelings to me. Like he really trusted me.. I think i was the only one he would tell that stuff to, I never seen him tell anyone else about how he really thought. I could really understand everything he felt. I left that year In love. lol
Next year seventh grade, i still liked him, but we had NO classes together. We only talked like twice that year, but I still left in love! hee hee
Eighth grade... Had one class, and when he would walk by my desk he would take a book, or do something to make me talk to him. And I volunteered to be in his dance group and he showed the how to do the waltz, so yeah I practically was SHAKING when he held my hand and put his hand on my waist! lol Then on the last day of that class, he came right in fast and sat where my friend was going to. he came in and said/yelled "IM sitting there!" I hid my face so there would be no suspision! hehehe
Yeah we've done a whole lot together and Im still in love with him, He's took up for me, and is just the PERFECT freind.

We're going into high school next year... in about 3 days theres a party he will be at and im invited, its a small one. only about 7 people. I just really don't know what to do.. ALMOST EVERY single one of my friends like him, so if i go out with him, i loose freinds, and maybe even him!
This may sound like a load of crap but Whenever Im at the WORST days of my life, he always makes me smile, im never sad around him, we've never fought. I just don't know what to do.

Many people love people for looks, but thats not love, its lust. I like him because he is sooooo nice to everyone. He's never ever acted like anyone other than himself. He's funny, and Well its like this, I LOVE HIM, not the outside of him, the inside.

SORRY this is so long, but i've never told ANYONE this so i had to get it out. Can you give me some advice on what to do? And thanks again for going through this L_O_N_G story. :) HELP PLEASE!

RomanceClass.com Advice
Find a way to contact him during the summer.

You must have a way to find a phone number or internet contact.

Work to be his best friend and gradually let him know you care about him. One day you will be saying to him "I am developing feelings for you." Hopefully he will feel the same way.

Don't let the summer pass with no contact, that would be a very bad thing for your relationship. Work very hard at contacting him frequently... maybe go for a walk, the movies, or whatever "as friends." He doesn't want to be bored during the summer either.

Good luck! George

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