What do we do now?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Well my boyfriend and I have been going out on and off for a while now. About 7 months. This time it's almost 2 months straight. I have pretty much told him that I think that I love him. And he told me that he loves me too. But he sometimes seems to flirt with other girls when I'm around. It makes me think what he does when I'm not around. What can I tell him or do to try to make this stop? I know you probably get a lot of these questions a day, but it would be greatly appreciated if you could give me some amazingly needed advice.!
You can communicate with him and let him know it bothers you.
But, on the other hand, you are trying to change a basic facet of his personality. There is really nothing wrong with flirting as long as it isn't too serious.
Save your comments until he really goes beyond the line.
Flirting is part of social development. If it bothers you too much, tell him that you might have to dump him if he continues.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com